Deanna (poisonedorchard) wrote in love_rants,

I'm in need of some advice. Hopefully someone can help.

I'm D. I've been in a relationship with J for almost 4 years. We moved in on our first date together and have had a great, loving relationship so far. Now, we are planning to move out of state together. He is going to work for my Father while I finish college. Since we've decided to move I've been thinking a lot about our relationship. I just don't know anymore. I love him and he loves me. There isn't a question there. But sometimes I wonder if I'd be happier with someone who were more... creative. I feel like our relationship is lacking something. While he seems content with that fact that we've just been together for so long that the "new" feeling is gone, I'm not. I think you never have to lose that feeling, but it's hard work to keep it up.

I don't know what to do. I don't know if these things can be worked through or if this is reason enough to end this relationship? Has anyone been through this before? Is it like what they call the "7 Year Marriage Itch"? Or is our difference in relationship opinion irreconcilable?

Sorry if none of this makes sense. There is a lot more to the story, but I didn't want to bore anyone with too  much detail.

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